Independent attitude needs to be instilled in children as early as possible. If the child is independent, it is certainly going to make the child feel more confident and good at doing a lot of things. Only, one problem that many parents face when teaching self-reliance in children that patience. Most parents often have little patience with the child to be independent. The limited ability of children to make the parents without regaining consciousness helps children to do things. Eventually the child becomes accustomed to 'served' and become dependent on his parents.
Basically, a parent can teach a child how to do everything on his own and independently do things easy in life. No need to rush to expect children to be able to flash turned into a independent child. Because everything is in need of process and a long struggle.
Well, here are some ways that can be applied by parents in educating their children to become independent person begins to perform his daily habits.
1 Teach Children To Establishing Goods In His place
The first thing to teach self-reliance in children can you do with teaching children to put back everything he took to be returned to its place. For example, tidy up and put back in the cupboard of books he has read. Do not allow children to leave the books scattered and reassembled. Well, for that it is better if you provide a small bookshelf that is easily accessible to children when you give a command, there is no excuse 'bookshelf that elusive' or other reasons that make children reject it. In addition, the patient at the beginning of the child may be refused orders parents, but if you are firm and patient, then sooner or later the child will understand.
2 Have Children To Familiarize Yourself merapihkan Beds
Every morning after waking up in the morning the child, ask the child to tidy up her bedroom, such as folded blankets and pillows trim. No need to linger quite 10 minutes. It is intended as an exercise for children to tidy up her own bedroom. As a first step, parents can first give an example of folded blankets and make sure if your child listened carefully and slowly ask them to tidy up his room every after use.
3 Teach Children To Eat Alone
With the passing of age, when you feel the child is able to do things yourself, then ask them to do it themselves while under the supervision of parents. No exception with problems eating and drinking. When the child is old enough and has been able to eat and drink themselves let them try to do it yourself. Once you feel they can do it themselves with good, then let them eat and drink by itself. This will teach the child to be independent in eating and drinking.
4 Prepare Before Going to School
Usually the parents will feel not bear to see her son get up early and prepare everything yourself. However, do you know if you continue to let your child wake up easily and directly confronted with breakfast without knowing his preparation when he went to school, so one day when they are away from you. This will make the children become increasingly suffer, because they've been hanging with his parents. Well, that involve children when preparing to go to school, such as wearing their own shoes and clothes that you have prepared. This way the child will know all the morning preparations before he went to school.
Now that he's a few ways that you can apply to the children to train children to become more independent. In addition to training its independence, the above methods can also build and practicing self-discipline and sense of responsibility of the child.
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